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A thing I don't see talked about much is the loneliness of seniority. It's hard to find people to bounce ideas off of, especially being back at a tiny company. Community Slacks are nice but when you're off in weird niche land, peers are hard to find and it's sad.

Noah Kantrowitz (@kantrn)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 23:15 +0000

🤷🏻‍♀️ Sometimes all that's left to say can be said on a snarky T-shirt 🤷🏻‍♀️

Kristen Seversky (@KR1573N)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 18:55 +0000

https://twitter.com/Bawdybuoy/status/1309969724688797696

this u?

#SAYTHEIRNAMES (@gucc1k1tty)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 21:37 +0000

https://twitter.com/garyshort/status/1309971828476125186

Looks like you just adjusted your language to use a gender neutral term 🤷🏻‍♀️

Emma Seward (@MrsEmma)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 22:37 +0000

What you refer to as The Empire is actually called The GNU/Empire...

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What is Darth Vader saying?

I❤️80s (@IL0VEthe80s)Fri, 25 Sep 2020 12:45 +0000

Noah Abrahams (@Noah_Abrahams)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 21:38 +0000

‏َ (@DIGIG00N)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 11:34 +0000

all ants are british because they colonize

Andy Bell (@hankchizljaw)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 21:52 +0000

I highly recommend accepting the fact that you’re probably wrong about a lot of things and will continue to learn that you are wrong about a lot of things

Mara “Get Rid of the Nazis” Wilson (@MaraWilson)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 00:41 +0000

https://twitter.com/garyshort/status/1309810115403448322

Every time this comes up I link to this blog post that covers it quite well, please read it: xaprb.com/blog/you-guys/

Carol 🌻 (@CarolSaysThings)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 20:12 +0000

https://twitter.com/garyshort/status/1309810115403448322

So how many guys have you slept with?

Elsa (@marmaladegirl)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 21:20 +0000

https://twitter.com/garyshort/status/1309922858953572352

Why not do both, actions and words. People are telling you that the word guys makes them feel excluded. So start with actions, such as listening to them and believing them and then words, like saying "people" or "folks". The decision to ignore them is itself an action.

Andrew Seward (@MrAndrew)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 18:36 +0000

https://twitter.com/garyshort/status/1309907216821084160

How it is acceptable to communicate, particularly when it comes to nouns that refer to groups of people, change over time. What's arbitrary is where you are choosing to dig your heels in.

Andrew Seward (@MrAndrew)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 17:41 +0000

https://twitter.com/garyshort/status/1309912822252478465

The language you use is a part of being inclusive, you cannot separate the two. This is such an obvious point I'm surprised I have to make it. When you refer to a group as "guys" you are by the dictionary definition of that word excluding people, which is not inclusive.

Andrew Seward (@MrAndrew)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 18:00 +0000

https://twitter.com/MrAndrew/status/1309915653101555715

People look to you as a leader. In using language like this you set a standard that others will follow. You send the message that such language is acceptable, that men are the default and those who are not men are secondary and that affects how people who look to you behave.

Andrew Seward (@MrAndrew)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 18:05 +0000

https://twitter.com/MrAndrew/status/1309917057627160578

I’ve recently started substituting “guys” for “folks”. It’s not easy to change the habit of a lifetime, but it comes at no cost to me, I’ll keep at it.

Oliver Tomlinson 🇪🇺 (@dotDestroyer)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 18:19 +0000

Today I’m going to talk about something uncomfortable Do you have friends or colleagues who don’t have children? Here’s some things not to say Thread... 1/n

Nitin Arora #WearAMask (@aroradrn)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 08:10 +0000

oh it's simple. you write the app, then you write the dockerfile. then you write the helm chart. then you write the deployment to describe the helm chart which describes the deployment for the containerized app. In this simple tutorial, we will launch a hello world app.. 1/496

fraq, tamer of pods (@0xfraq)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 16:25 +0000

😭

Sean Murray (@NoMansSky)Fri, 25 Sep 2020 20:02 +0000

why is this cat all of us?

The Mary Sue (@TheMarySue)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 14:30 +0000

It's a hazelnut doughnut that looks like a burger 😄 (and is small burger-size)

Gen Ashley (@coderinheels)Sat, 12 Sep 2020 14:43 +0000

no pain au chocolat no gain au chocolat

Adam Smith (@adamndsmith)Fri, 25 Sep 2020 14:23 +0000

Peak masculinity bullshit.

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wtf

decentrelyssa 💣 (@vrijomslachtig)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 01:22 +0000

Aral Balkan 🕷 (@aral@mastodon.ar.al) (@aral)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 15:06 +0000

https://twitter.com/garyshort/status/1309810115403448322

There are plenty of words you won’t use because other people might find them offensive. Adapting how we present our messages to ensure they are received in the spirit they intended is a basic communication skill. Why wouldn’t you do this for the word “guys”?

Andrew Seward (@MrAndrew)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 15:13 +0000

Don't use the word "simple" to describe how to do something, especially if you don't know how to do it yourself. What's simple to you isn't necessarily simple to someone else.

Kelly Vaughn 🐞 (@kvlly)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 15:09 +0000

https://twitter.com/garyshort/status/1309810115403448322

I feel excluded by it. I'm not a guy.

Emma Seward (@MrsEmma)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 15:00 +0000

https://twitter.com/pete_codes/status/1309767145543340032

in the same vein @pete_codes Friends don’t have friends who don’t call out those that refer to people as resources

Shaun (@sdh100Shaun)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 14:57 +0000

https://twitter.com/lskiuk/status/1309768317385797632

Hmm... Not great... I know its just a word, but, it's not at all inclusive, and worse can rightly be a trigger for some too. There are so many better words to use, I like @shanselman's "friends", I tend to just use "everyone". Being "used to saying" something is at best lazy.

Pete Gallagher - Azure #MVPBuzz #MSIgnite (@pete_codes)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 08:17 +0000

https://twitter.com/garyshort/status/1309810115403448322

Your beliefs aren't others' experiences. It reflects an absence of inclusion in the perspective (but perhaps not intention) of the user. It is uncomfortable even if it is not directly offensive.

E-quipper - grateful for the mask you wear (@annwitbrock)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 11:15 +0000

https://twitter.com/WiT_Notts/status/1309868460789452801

To @pete_codes and every single one of our supporters and allies, thank you for learning and choosing to stop saying words like guys because you believe in helping others 🧡

Women In Tech, Nottingham 🌈✨ (@WiT_Notts)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 14:54 +0000

Friends don't let friends... Use the word "Guys" when addressing a mixed gender room... Infact, just don't use the word "Guys" at all...

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Friends don't let friends ____________________ Fill in the gap. And tag two friends. @ShanesCows @sbisson

Luise Freese💙💜💖 | MVP | #poweraddict (@LuiseFreese)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 06:44 +0000

Pete Gallagher - Azure #MVPBuzz #MSIgnite (@pete_codes)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 08:09 +0000

I still need to find some dielectric grease before I can build it, but I’m already incredibly excited about my new keyboard. Hear how clicky this switch is 🥰

Carol 🌻 (@CarolSaysThings)Fri, 25 Sep 2020 15:51 +0000

Just spoken to my son who is a student in Scotland. They are now not allowed to visit each other’s flats, banned from going to pubs & all tuition is online. So they’re getting in debt paying huge amounts of rent & fees to stay imprisoned in their rooms. This can’t be right

christinalamb (@christinalamb)Fri, 25 Sep 2020 11:35 +0000

THIS 👏 IS 👏 A 👏 VALID 👏 LAST 👏 NAME 👏

Maria De-Arteaga (@mariadearteaga)Fri, 25 Sep 2020 17:05 +0000

Gonna miss this kid. @SawyerBlatz 's last review 😭

Emily (@EmilyKager)Sat, 26 Sep 2020 00:00 +0000

Hillary Monahan (@HillaryMonahan)Thu, 24 Sep 2020 22:41 +0000

My husband’s new t-shirt that I ordered him has arrived. I love it 🤣

Niknax (@nickijones71)Thu, 24 Sep 2020 09:56 +0000

Maybe I need to write a blog post called "On Call For Managers". If you're asking engineers to be on call for their code -- and you should -- you owe in return: - enough time to fix what's broken - hands to do the work - closely track how often they are interrupted/woken - ..etc

Charity Majors (@mipsytipsy)Fri, 25 Sep 2020 21:24 +0000

It would've been yesterday for @DevOpsDaysLDN 2020 as I reminisce about 2019 when @rjw1 was on his #bobinjapan adventures and I joined OOH support rota. Can't believe a year has flown by so quickly ☁️

Olivia Campbell (@oecampbell)Fri, 25 Sep 2020 19:14 +0000

I am so ridiculously glad I chose the OU to start remote studying this autumn rather than studying on campus as a day student at a local university... 🦠😬

Emma Seward (@MrsEmma)Fri, 25 Sep 2020 20:38 +0000

My parents rescued a kitten and I’m trying to convince them to a) keep him b) name him Ghiță (Romanian folks 👋🏼 do you like this name?) #cat

Dora (@doramilitaru)Thu, 27 Jun 2019 13:34 +0000

My personal fave is to make sure I always report any bugs I find cause I think they’re unaware of them. As if there’s not a developer really pissed off already that this easy fix bug still hasn’t been prioritised after months 😅

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me, a software engineer: large scale production systems are complex and require teams of experts to keep running. It’s near impossible to get right 100% of the time me, when an app I use goes down once: these fucking clowns, what the fuck

Brandon Dail (@aweary)Fri, 25 Sep 2020 01:17 +0000

Carol 🌻 (@CarolSaysThings)Fri, 25 Sep 2020 09:10 +0000

was explaining “if you snooze you lose” to french husband and he said “so basically it’s if you are sleeping, fuck you”

rachel de navailles (@racheldenav)Thu, 24 Sep 2020 16:15 +0000

https://twitter.com/EsraaMHelmy/status/1309087966447521796

Roy van Rijn (@royvanrijn)Fri, 25 Sep 2020 06:05 +0000

can I just buy some abs? I'm fucking tired of working out son

jacky and 5 others (@jackyalcine)Fri, 25 Sep 2020 03:02 +0000

Thank you all for your messages of support. My statement below:

Nadia Whittome MP (@NadiaWhittomeMP)Thu, 24 Sep 2020 09:44 +0000

Hard life being a pupper 💤

Ed George (@Sp4ghettiCode)Thu, 24 Sep 2020 21:18 +0000