One of my ex colleagues used to do this a lot and it took me a while to unlearn that "Nice." was actually a valid and not sarcastic reply 😅
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Charlie Owen (@whalecoiner@indieweb.social)
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I’ve been accused by millennial friends of using “gen x full stops”. “is charlie mad at me??”
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Ryan 🧜🏳️⚧️ (@ryanhoulihan@mastodon.social)
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I’m trying really hard to let things go because I cannot take on the entire world but if I tell you somebody is non-binary your first question should not be “AMAB or AFAB”? That is very hostile. Thank you!
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jalciné is coping by having (@jalcine@todon.eu)
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Oh nah, GitHub is doing too much
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Attached: 1 image Adam Neumann deserves a statue in the grifting Hall of Fame

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Sophie (@sophie@social.lol)
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AI-powered content generation tools give me the mega ick. Why should I read something you couldn’t be bothered to write? @maggie@indieweb.social is guiding us through the dark forest of generative AI #ffconf
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Joe Hart 🏳️🌈 (@joehart@social.lol)
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I dunno gang, maybe this whole "internet" thing was a mistake #ffconf
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Joe Hart 🏳️🌈 (@joehart@social.lol)
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#ffconf in general is a good vibes conference, but there is always a talk or two that makes me go "oh god we're all doomed"
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THIS MESSAGE IS A LEGALLY BINDING CONTRACT I DO NOT AUTHORIZE JOHN MASTODON TO SHARE MY PHOTOS OR MESSAGES WITH UNAUTHORIZED THIRD PARTIES A VIOLATION OF MY PRIVACY IS PUNISHABLE BY LAW (UCC 1-669-420 AND THE LEET STATUTE) ALL MEMBERS MUST POST A NOTE LIKE THIS, OR BOOST THIS MESSAGE, IF YOU DO NOT THEN YOU ARE ALLOWING JOHN MASTODON TO REPOST YOUR PHOTOS AND NEVER-DOES-NUMBERS POSTS. THIS MESSAGE IS A LEGALLY BINDING CONTRACT
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Go Devroom @ FOSDEM (@godevroom@fosstodon.org)
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For 10 years the Go community came together at FOSDEM! To celebrate that we’ll do it all again this year!! Do you have a talk proposal? Now is the time to submit! Our CfP is all open :gopher: https://github.com/go-devroom/cfp/blob/main/README.md
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1 bar of 3G is not enough for me to enthuse about excellent talks at #FFConf 😭
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Carol 🪩 (@carol@social.lol)

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Attached: 1 image feeling very seen by @jonthanfielding@mastodon.social at #FFConf i find it easy to see where ADHD holds me back, so it’s good to see where it helps too 💛

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“Instead of talking about hard skills and soft skills, let’s actually call them what they are. One set of skills is technical skills, skills for dealing with technology and technical problems And one set of skills is human skills, things for dealing with humans.” 🎥 @kball https://youtube.com/shorts/mNHX-QlHAlg
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Melanie (@a11yMel@front-end.social)
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When I repeatedly am asked “Why accessibility though? What’s the business case?” I get cranky (but I’m working on that). It’s the law. Why do I have to argue a business case for anyone to *checks notes* not break the law?? Yes there is a whole ‘nother aspect where it shouldn’t have had to become a law in the first place but FFS.
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Attached: 1 image Happy circulatory system walking through the kitchen day to those who celebrate

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Burnout diaries by Amy Hupe, content designer.
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Notes on burnout, from the depths of burnout.

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james (@js@front-end.social)
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Call me an unsecured database because I know a lot of shit and have many vulnerabilities
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geekysteven (@geekysteven@beige.party)

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Attached: 1 image You can decrease the negativity in your life 100% by replacing all the people you know with this quokka

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james (@james@strangeobject.space)
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sorry im late i didnt want to come so I deliberately left after i should have thanks for understanding
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Mallory :v_trans: :v_lesbian: (@malcircuit@thingy.social)
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The same sort of pattern can show up with something like being trans or gay. Anything that society stigmatizes, despite it being a thing a person is born with or otherwise has no control over. If people are punished for being themselves, they hide themselves. They break themselves to fit into the mold. 4/4
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If you have had an adult family member or friend that was recently diagnosed with a previously unknown developmental psychological disorder (ADHD, autism, etc), you might have noticed something that confused you. Right around the time they were diagnosed, maybe even a bit before, they "suddenly" began to exhibit symptoms when never had before. You might be like, "I've known this person for X years and they never behaved like this." You might even think they are "acting" or something. 1/4
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The truth is exactly the opposite. Anyone that's "different" in our culture learns very quickly to hide their differences. The world punishes anyone who's different — usually not explicitly, but by enforcing expectations that cannot be met. People start doing what's known as "masking" — they hold back their true selves and maintain an appearance of normalcy by any means. Usually masking is driven by guilt, shame, and anxiety, and it often leads to burnout or worse. It takes a toll on people. 2/4
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Your friend or family member hasn't started acting for "attention" or to get a medication or whatever. They've *stopped* acting. The person you *thought* you knew was only a façade constructed for protection . You only saw the armor they put on everyday, not them. Now that they've learned their differences aren't "their fault" or because "they are broken" or whatever, they can let their guard down. For maybe the first time in their life, they aren't forcing themselves to be who they aren't. 3/4
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Accessing go links across tailnets
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One of the more fun projects I’ve worked on at Tailscale is golink, which provide simple, private shortcuts that you can share with others on your tailnet. We have hundreds of go links at Tailscale …
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A brief story about a nice lady we met at a red light

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if i became super famous i would use my platform to start another bank run as a bit
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Are you ok in there? I couldn't help but notice that you've been in the screaming closet a little longer than usual. There's a line out here
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This video should've been a blog post

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Online Text Editor - Create, Edit, Share and Save Text Files
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A secure web app that allows you to create, edit, share and save text files to your device or to Google Drive as an editable Doc
Between and I took 8286 steps.
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Zee Spencer (He/They) (@Zee@social.coop)
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An anonymous internet is highly valuable; a pseudonymous internet is highly valuable; a named internet is highly valuable. Attempting to regulate these 3 Internets as if they are the same is ultimately futile.
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Attached: 1 image I've just sent off the book to @pragprog@techhub.social to be processed for the next beta release! https://fossbiz.com #OpenSource

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Mike McQuaid (@mikemcquaid@mastodon.social)
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Observation: if you're someone who angrily rants about how terrible a bunch of software is: chances are extremely high you've never actually built any notable software used by non-trivial amounts of people. It's almost as if reading many many people shredding your work to pieces on the internet makes you mildly less inclined to do the same to others. Who could have guessed?
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https://www.pcgamer.com/valve-steam-deck-oled-announcement/ reports Valve making a OLED Steam Deck. I'm pretty happy with mine, the lowest model of the second batch. Frankly, it's not "just" a console to me, it's a whole separate computer that I have to maintain (but in a kinda fun way and with a journaled file system so rolling back is easy). For more causal folk, this might be the model they've been waiting for. A brighter screen, more power and it's lighter? (https://jacky.wtf/2023/11/mOe5)
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OH: A coworker just shared a term she uses to describe meetings that go astray when certain coworkers bloviate. “Non-consensual TED talk.”
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Between and I took 11095 steps.
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Mimir (@mimir@meow.social)
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who called it "legend of zelda speedrunning" and not "link-time optimization"
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Jason Evangelho (@killyourfm@layer8.space)
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It takes 12,000 plays on Spotify for a band to make the same as you buying one of their T-shirts.
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Attached: 1 image It’s @simon@simonwillison.net pitching a conspiracy we can all get in on: pay open source maintainers to speak to your team (!!)

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1. Read this: “Just as GitHub was founded on Git, today we are re-founded on Copilot.” https://github.blog/2023-11-08-universe-2023-copilot-transforms-github-into-the-ai-powered-developer-platform/ 2. Go here: https://codeberg.org/ #git #gitHub #codeberg #enshittification #BigTech #cooperative #dev
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Today’s guest is Josh Loudermilk, a member of the Khan Academy team and Khanmigo Evangelist, talking about coming to terms with his neurodiversities as an adult. From being a pastor, doing non-profit work with veterans, and working in entertainment as a writer and actor, Josh has worn many hats! Growing up, he was the “different” kid learning how to live and thrive with ADHD, PTSD, and generative anxiety disorder. Now, he’s here on Hello, My Darlings podcast to share his compelling story and successes! You

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Temporal with Max Fateev - Software Engineering Daily
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There are countless real world scenarios where a workflow or process has multiple steps, and some steps must be completed before others can be started. Think of something as simple as cooking dinner. First you look up a recipe, then you write down the ingredients you need, you go shopping, and then you cook. These
